The Choice is Yours

by on Oct 09, 12

The Choice is Yours

Told a friend, "You think you know what you are looking for. But you know something? Your choices do not show that you know what you are looking for. In fact, you are actually deceiving yourself...

When was The Last Time You REALLY R...

by on May 24, 12

When was The Last Time You REALLY REALLY Laughed?

Dearest Readers, Disclaimer: The following post might offend you. If you are not able to keep an open mind, or read it with a pinch of salt, I would suggest that you stop reading right now. Thanks,...

“Violet, why are you SO despe...

by on Dec 24, 11

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

I dreamt of getting married by the age of 26. Yes, when I was growing up, that was my goal. To get married by the time I am 26, and to have my first child when I am 28. I am very blessed… when...

How to Snag a Great Guy 101

by on Aug 10, 11

How to Snag a Great Guy 101

Recently, an associate shared with me that she and another colleague of ours are very envious of me, because I have snagged such a great guy. My hubby Jamie comes across as a good husband as well as...

“It was not love at first sig...

by on Aug 04, 11

“It was not love at first sight…”

People have often asked me, "When a first date does not progress beyond a second date, what is the main reason?" The answer given by singles is often the same. "No...