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Comment on One’s Life Must Matter by Antonia

Antonia — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 04:33:24 +0000

Very inspiring message. It takes a lot of courage to get out of our own comfort zone and pursue our dreams, and make possible what others think it is not workable. I will remember this… make a positive difference to others' life and make my life matter.

Comment on One’s Life Must Matter by alvinjee

alvinjee — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 10:27:33 +0000

I agree with you violet. Its better to go ahead anywhere rather than to look back in 20 years and regret

Comment on “If you want to be loved, be lovable.” by VK

VK — Sat, 31 Mar 2012 16:35:36 +0000

Agreed with your statement about the confused gender roles in this modern society.
I tried dating a lady. I wouldnt care whether she was old, ugly, poor physical outlooks or where she was from. But her character was dominant and strong. She insisted on her ways, and whenever I suggested something, she would become defensive and must have her way. She would rather spend time arguing instead of giving way. I had enough of her and that's it.

Comment on “Violet, why are you SO desperate?” by Lydia

Lydia — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:33:36 +0000

Well written! Singles feel pressured, it is important we shed positive light to accept and encourage them.

Comment on “Violet, why are you SO desperate?” by Dennis Lin

Dennis Lin — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 06:32:18 +0000

Dear Violet,
Thanks for your wonderful and inspiring post on getting Singles believing that they will be able to find that special someone some day, be it in the Year 2012 or beyond.
Indeed, it is a blessing that both parties who have mutual feelings with one another can share their joy and sorrow in whatever phases of lives they are in. Hope that 1 day, I will be able to find that someone soon ! maybe next year, just maybe .. …
Yours Faithfully,
Dennis Lin

Comment on “Violet, why are you SO desperate?” by Zabrinah's Love Blog

Zabrinah's Love Blog — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 01:13:41 +0000

I think the reason why so many of us plan an age when we want to be married or have children is because it's a bit of a comfort mechanism while waiting for our love lives to work out. It also comes from the excitement to start a new chapter in life. We want to reach a new point where it's not about being single, but about being a couple. So, we plan it out.
I definitely believe and agree with you that the right guy does not run. If he did, he wouldn't be the right guy, now would he?
Wishing you a joyous holiday season,

~Zabrinah
[your everyday girl, writing about guys]

Comment on How to Snag a Great Guy 101 by Paige

Paige — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 14:23:56 +0000

Dear Violet, Thanks for all the reality checks. Your articles are helpful to re-light that common sense in me. Life is going so fast and hard that we sometimes forget the true value in life and hence we lost ourselves- drowned in work and unnecessary nuisances, worrying about this and that. A lot of time we are so completely involved with the hustle abd bustle that we forget to be happy- making a choice to be happy. After reading a few of your articles, I felt "awaken". Thank you.

Comment on How to Snag a Great Guy 101 by Ryan Ong

Ryan Ong — Sat, 17 Sep 2011 06:18:02 +0000

Dear Violet,

Awesome! There are many great men (i know my buddies are).

Personally, I think you've captured it well.
I think women who are humble and simple are the most sincere and it makes me feel safe with them.

My wife is THE ONE (:

Comment on Thursday Thirteen #5: 13 of my Favourite Love & Motivational Quotes by Edward Bass Producer

Edward Bass Producer — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 01:44:37 +0000

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Comment on Movie Review: Love in Space 全球热恋 by Violet

Violet — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 02:27:42 +0000

Hi Sean, glad you found the review useful. Do come by to share your thoughts after you watch the show. =)