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Comment on Taking Responsibility vs. Allocating Blame by Jace

Jace — Mon, 07 Jan 2013 17:14:09 +0000

Violet,
Lol! It happens to both genders.
This reminds me of my first date. He turned up for the date and guessed what was the first 3 comments he made?
1. The dating agency is really expensive!
2. Guess what? I was with the for 1 year already and there was no date list until recently. They have forgotten to activate my account!
3. We take this chance to make friends only right?
I was stunned on the spot. In my mind I was thinking:
1. I know they are not cheap but are you going to make sure I serve all your purpose?
2. If there's no respond, shouldn't you check with the agency and not wait for a year?
3. Okay~ no need to lay your cards so explicitly. I'm not forcing you to marry me…
Anyway, though we still meet up for dinner and lunch after that, it eventually did not realise into anything positive. Guess I have low ROI value. )

Comment on Personal View vs. Professional View on Love, Dating & Relationships by JL

JL — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 14:47:58 +0000

Hi Carol,
A word of consolation, you are not alone. I just had my fair share of being proactive to a guy whom I had grown to like after a couple of dates. Unfortunately, his on/off attitude totally bruised my confidence and left me totally low morale. I thought we had a chance to move forward. I don't know his stand now and I'm leaving the ball in his court. I had explicit made known my feelings and lay the path so nothing more I can do.
I am a firm believer of expressing your feelings to people you like because you never know what will happen tomorrow. I treasure every relationship with sincerity. But if the other person cannot accept this, guess its like what violet mention – maybe he is not the guy for me.
meanwhile, I'll continue to heal my bruised heart and move on. Tough but I believe I can do it and be the bubbly Gal again.

Ps Violet: I find ur blog encouraging and thought provoking.

Comment on happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2) by Jace

Jace — Fri, 28 Dec 2012 12:40:25 +0000

Thank you for this write up. Your words helped me make my decision about this guy who is unsure of what he wants and treated me hot/cold & on/off.

Comment on Dating Singaporean Men… by stephanie

stephanie — Tue, 13 Nov 2012 20:28:21 +0000

Hey
i just need a handsome guy to add joy to my life

Comment on How to Snag a Great Guy 101 by adjahstrina

adjahstrina — Mon, 01 Oct 2012 19:20:04 +0000

All the great guys are not married or gay lol that's what I say to myself and my singleton friends all the time ! Thank you for the reassurance

Comment on Marriage Does Not Need To Be So Hard by Willyn

Willyn — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 13:13:20 +0000

treat your partner as your bestfriend as always, constant communication and dating is really a great idea…such a great thoughts, thank you for sharing..

Comment on Breaking Up is Hard to Do… by Violet

Violet — Wed, 22 Aug 2012 23:30:12 +0000

The name of the song is ???:)

Comment on Breaking Up is Hard to Do… by jerry

jerry — Mon, 20 Aug 2012 11:01:34 +0000

hi may i know the chinese title for that song by a mei?

Comment on Marriage Does Not Need To Be So Hard by Violet

Violet — Sun, 12 Aug 2012 07:01:41 +0000

Heya Nigel! Totally agree with what you have shared. And definitely would recommend 5 love languages by Gary Chapman as well. Excellent reading be it for singles or attached or married couples.

Comment on Marriage Does Not Need To Be So Hard by Nigel Sheridan-Smith

Nigel Sheridan-Smith — Sat, 11 Aug 2012 22:21:26 +0000

Its all about communication, compromise, partnership, investment and your love languages. You have a contract with one another, so you have to keep making it work.
Grab a copy of 'Getting the love you want' (Hendrix) and 'Five love languages'… well worth a read.
Cheers,
Nigel