Thankful that I was Not Born Beautiful

by on Feb 01, 16

Thankful that I was Not Born Beautiful

This post is inspired by some comments on a TV advert that I was recently featured in. Netizens have taken the liberty to highlight my non-beauty by comparing me to 如花, a Taiwanese...

Turning 35: 10 Things I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago

by on Feb 27, 15

Turning 35: 10 Things I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago

Turning 35 is a big milestone. I am officially middle age! 🙂 Just like how I reflected when I turned 30, I decided to do a mini reflection now that I have turned 35. Here are 10 things...

When was The Last Time You REALLY REALLY Laughed?

by on May 24, 12

When was The Last Time You REALLY REALLY Laughed?

Dearest Readers, Disclaimer: The following post might offend you. If you are not able to keep an open mind, or read it with a pinch of salt, I would suggest that you stop reading right now. Thanks,...

One’s Life Must Matter

by on Apr 14, 12

One’s Life Must Matter

Apart from matchmaking, public speaking is one of other passions. This is the speech that helped me win the Toastmasters Area Level International Speech Contest. Have a wonderful weekend, my dearest...

Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

by on Feb 04, 12

Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

Dear Violet, My experiences in dating has been nothing but a complete failure. I read your success stories on how couples have found true love on net dating sites or through social events or other...

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

by on Dec 24, 11

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

I dreamt of getting married by the age of 26. Yes, when I was growing up, that was my goal. To get married by the time I am 26, and to have my first child when I am 28. I am very blessed… when...