Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

by on Feb 04, 12

Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

Dear Violet, My experiences in dating has been nothing but a complete failure. I read your success stories on how couples have found true love on net dating sites or through social events or other...

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

by on Dec 24, 11

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

I dreamt of getting married by the age of 26. Yes, when I was growing up, that was my goal. To get married by the time I am 26, and to have my first child when I am 28. I am very blessed… when...

Seeking Perfection?

by on Dec 15, 11

Seeking Perfection?

Have not updated my blog in months. And the significant other has started to nag me. 'When was the last time you blogged?' he asked. The reason for the lack of blog posts is usually the same....

Movie Review: Love in Space 全球热恋

by on Sep 08, 11

Movie Review: Love in Space 全球热恋

Honestly, I was quite put off with the movie title at first. Love in Space? Hmm… However, I was attracted to the star-studded cast (Aaron Kwok, Eason Chan, Rene Liu, Xu Fan, Angelababy),...

How to Snag a Great Guy 101

by on Aug 10, 11

How to Snag a Great Guy 101

Recently, an associate shared with me that she and another colleague of ours are very envious of me, because I have snagged such a great guy. My hubby Jamie comes across as a good husband as well as...

“It was not love at first sight…”

by on Aug 04, 11

“It was not love at first sight…”

People have often asked me, "When a first date does not progress beyond a second date, what is the main reason?" The answer given by singles is often the same. "No...