Is Your ‘Value’ Holding You Back?

by on Aug 03, 12

Is Your ‘Value’ Holding You Back?

I was invited to speak at a public seminar a few weeks back, and one of the other speakers shared, "Wherever you are right now in life is a result of a value that you hold dear to." When...

When was The Last Time You REALLY REALLY Laughed?

by on May 24, 12

When was The Last Time You REALLY REALLY Laughed?

Dearest Readers, Disclaimer: The following post might offend you. If you are not able to keep an open mind, or read it with a pinch of salt, I would suggest that you stop reading right now. Thanks,...

Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

by on Feb 04, 12

Ask Violet: Am I Unwanted, Ugly and Worthless?

Dear Violet, My experiences in dating has been nothing but a complete failure. I read your success stories on how couples have found true love on net dating sites or through social events or other...

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

by on Dec 24, 11

“Violet, why are you SO desperate?”

I dreamt of getting married by the age of 26. Yes, when I was growing up, that was my goal. To get married by the time I am 26, and to have my first child when I am 28. I am very blessed… when...

Seeking Perfection?

by on Dec 15, 11

Seeking Perfection?

Have not updated my blog in months. And the significant other has started to nag me. 'When was the last time you blogged?' he asked. The reason for the lack of blog posts is usually the same....

Movie Review: Love in Space 全球热恋

by on Sep 08, 11

Movie Review: Love in Space 全球热恋

Honestly, I was quite put off with the movie title at first. Love in Space? Hmm… However, I was attracted to the star-studded cast (Aaron Kwok, Eason Chan, Rene Liu, Xu Fan, Angelababy),...