Annual Reviews (4)
My annual 'Report Card'
- Bidding a bittersweet farewell to 2009..., December 31, 2009 (5)
- Looking Back at 2008..., December 31, 2008 (6)
- Looking back at 2007..., December 29, 2007 (3)
- May year 2006 be a dazzling year for all of us!, January 3, 2006 (2)
Ask Violet! (23)
Submit your love, dating & relationship questions! :)
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Is it possible for a long-distance relationship to work?, June 22, 2010
- I can't open up my feelings to my boyfriend..., June 19, 2010
- He wants me to be a full-time housewife! But I want my career!, June 16, 2010
- "There aren't enough confident men...", June 10, 2010 (4)
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 3), June 6, 2010
- Violet is herworld.com's Relationship Q&A Expert!, June 5, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2), June 3, 2010 (5)
- happilyeverafter: "Are you dating the marrying type?" (Part 1), June 1, 2010
- DaFG: To be punctual or late on a first date?, May 27, 2010
- DAfG: Do Pick-up Lines Work?, November 24, 2009 (1)
- "My boyfriend has a change of heart...", November 8, 2009 (8)
- DAfG: Dating on a Shoestring, October 24, 2009 (2)
- DAfG: Dating Out of Your League?, September 24, 2009 (4)
- "If you want to be loved, be lovable.", April 21, 2009 (3)
- Episode 2 - Ask Violet - Is he interested in me?, December 19, 2008
- Inter-faith relationships, do they work?, April 2, 2008 (3)
- Boyfriend vs. best friend: Who do I choose?, March 7, 2008 (2)
- Should I contact my ex?, January 31, 2008
- Thursday Tips from Ms. Matchmaker: 13 things I would do if I were Single and Looking for Love, November 29, 2007 (6)
- I love her, but does she love me?, August 20, 2007 (7)
- Torn between Family & Lover, August 27, 2006 (4)
- "I am dating a married man!", July 21, 2006 (11)
Bits & Pieces (92)
every.thing.else.
- Violet is herworld.com's Relationship Q&A Expert!, June 5, 2010
- VioletLim.com is a finalist in the S'pore Blog Awards 2010!, May 25, 2010
- "Is Marriage for Me?" on Singapore Talking, May 3, 2010 (2)
- Amazing April - Foray into Acting etc.!, April 29, 2010 (3)
- Happiness is..., April 5, 2010 (2)
- With Love from Beijing..., March 28, 2010
- Happy Valentine's Day & Gong Xi Fa Cai! :), February 14, 2010
- I am running in the Standard Chartered Marathon 2009!, December 4, 2009 (4)
- Dating Locals vs. Dating Foreigners, November 30, 2009
- My blog is back up!, August 22, 2009 (1)
- Funny Corum, August 14, 2009
- Wordpress on Blackberry, July 23, 2009 (1)
- Blog Revamp!, July 15, 2009 (2)
- Please help Little Charmaine!, July 3, 2009 (2)
- Film Review: Twilight, February 6, 2009 (5)
- Exciting & Amazing Singles Events for February 2009, January 29, 2009 (1)
- Touched..., December 16, 2008 (4)
- God is Smart..., November 4, 2008 (7)
- Quick Update 22.09.08, September 22, 2008 (3)
- A Love Poem: Love is like a butterfly, August 11, 2008
- Love, in theory..., April 13, 2008 (2)
- My Favourite Boys :), March 30, 2008
- Turning 28..., February 21, 2008 (4)
- Happy Valentine's Day! :), February 14, 2008
- Looking back at 2007..., December 29, 2007 (3)
- Singles with a BIG Heart, December 18, 2007
- New Poll is up! , November 26, 2007 (3)
- I love cab drivers! :), November 22, 2007 (4)
- Busy Workshop Weekend!, October 29, 2007 (2)
- A Wake, a Front Cover and a Role Model, September 5, 2007 (7)
- It comes a time, when you just have to RESET..., August 31, 2007 (2)
- When you are 60..., August 10, 2007 (4)
- Accreditation for Singapore Dating Agencies, July 20, 2007 (1)
- I am a Rockin' Girl Blogger!, July 17, 2007
- Personal View vs. Professional View on Love, Dating & Relationships, June 23, 2007 (4)
- Blog Plug: Charming but Single, June 14, 2007 (8)
- Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?, June 11, 2007 (3)
- Meme: The Face Behind the Blog, June 8, 2007 (3)
- Thursday Thirteen #5: 13 of my Favourite Love & Motivational Quotes, May 24, 2007 (4)
- Touched by God's Little Angel, May 20, 2007 (2)
- What do men want, really?, May 4, 2007 (7)
- A Revelation!, May 2, 2007 (4)
- Woohoo! :) They got married!, April 30, 2007 (3)
- Thursday Thirteen #4: 13 items you can find in a modern-day matchmaker's handbag!, April 19, 2007 (11)
- Quick Updates 18 Apr 2007, April 18, 2007 (2)
- Yay! Eteract.com is one of the recipients of The Partner Connection Fund!, March 30, 2007 (4)
- VioletLim.com | Diary of a Modern-Day Matchmaker, March 20, 2007 (11)
- And... Mr. Darcy comes up top in "Who is your ideal guy?", March 8, 2007 (3)
- Who is the 1st Blogger you Met?, March 8, 2007 (9)
- 5 Reasons Why I Blog, March 4, 2007 (7)
- Thursday Thirteen #2: 13 Things I Love, February 15, 2007 (9)
- Thursday Thirteen #1: 13 Random Facts about Me, February 8, 2007 (8)
- My Dream Date, February 1, 2007 (11)
- Poll Results: Most Important Quality in a Partner, January 21, 2007 (6)
- You know things are different when..., January 9, 2007
- A Misunderstanding, December 24, 2006 (6)
- Interesting Video on First Dates, December 20, 2006 (5)
- The Ivy Lee Episode: Doing the Right Thing?, December 13, 2006 (11)
- Baby has arrived!, November 19, 2006 (11)
- On a Personal Note..., October 1, 2006 (2)
- A Sign, September 1, 2006 (10)
- A Quick Update!, August 12, 2006 (9)
- How to Motivate your Employees, July 31, 2006 (7)
- What'd you like to read about?, July 24, 2006 (5)
- For the first time..., July 20, 2006 (6)
- About the Babe..., June 27, 2006 (4)
- About that 'minor operation', June 4, 2006 (7)
- The Maker knows Best, May 30, 2006 (7)
- Away for the Weekend, May 25, 2006
- Getting from point A to B, May 20, 2006 (4)
- Witnessing a Miracle, May 10, 2006 (13)
- The many uses of scotch tape..., April 29, 2006 (11)
- The Words that Bind, April 10, 2006 (10)
- I love weddings!, March 27, 2006 (2)
- Rate my Blog, March 3, 2006 (3)
- Migrated to WordPress, March 1, 2006 (11)
- I am a Columnist! Woohoo!, February 18, 2006 (9)
- Blog Revamp, February 12, 2006 (4)
- Arghh!, February 10, 2006 (2)
- Gong Xi Fa Cai!, January 29, 2006 (4)
- Must We Sleep?, January 25, 2006 (3)
- Almost a Size 8, January 17, 2006 (2)
- About Miss Match, January 8, 2006 (1)
- Lunch date service, December 17, 2005 (2)
- Trying out audioBLOGGER! :), December 7, 2005 (1)
- What kind of girl are you?, December 3, 2005
- I am Moving... (oops! no longer moving), November 30, 2005
- Sticky Situation! How to get out without hurting her feelings?, November 30, 2005 (4)
- The meaning of 'Violet', November 20, 2005 (2)
- Fortune Teller, November 9, 2005 (2)
- Is Jack Neo planning a movie about matchmaking anytime soon? Call me!, November 2, 2005 (6)
- News, November 2, 2005
Blog Plug (7)
Blogs that I have enjoyed!
- Blog Revamp!, July 15, 2009 (2)
- Dating over 40, May 4, 2009
- Blog Plug: Romance-Fire.com, July 4, 2007 (2)
- Running out of Romantic Ideas?, July 1, 2007
- Blog Plug: Charming but Single, June 14, 2007 (8)
- VioletLim.com | Diary of a Modern-Day Matchmaker, March 20, 2007 (11)
- Blog Plug: *Our Love will Never Die*, January 15, 2007 (5)
Dating Advice for Guys (12)
How to be a better date!
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Violet's 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 1), July 14, 2010 (3)
- DAfG: 4 Signs that You Should De-clutter your Dating (Life)Style, June 14, 2010
- DaFG: To be punctual or late on a first date?, May 27, 2010
- Nicholas Tse's Love Philosophy |谢霆锋的爱情观, May 25, 2010
- DaFG: Date Like a Pro... Learn from Twilight's Edward Cullen!, May 10, 2010 (4)
- DaFG: How 'Not' to Celebrate Valentine’s Day, February 9, 2010
- DaFG: The Perfect Proposal, January 29, 2010
- DAfG: Do Pick-up Lines Work?, November 24, 2009 (1)
- DAfG: Dating on a Shoestring, October 24, 2009 (2)
- DAfG: Dating Out of Your League?, September 24, 2009 (4)
Dating Reality (88)
Tips. Advice. Dos & Don'ts. Find them all here.
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Is it possible for a long-distance relationship to work?, June 22, 2010
- I can't open up my feelings to my boyfriend..., June 19, 2010
- He wants me to be a full-time housewife! But I want my career!, June 16, 2010
- DAfG: 4 Signs that You Should De-clutter your Dating (Life)Style, June 14, 2010
- "There aren't enough confident men...", June 10, 2010 (4)
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 3), June 6, 2010
- Violet is herworld.com's Relationship Q&A Expert!, June 5, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2), June 3, 2010 (5)
- DaFG: To be punctual or late on a first date?, May 27, 2010
- Nicholas Tse's Love Philosophy |谢霆锋的爱情观, May 25, 2010
- DaFG: Date Like a Pro... Learn from Twilight's Edward Cullen!, May 10, 2010 (4)
- "Is Marriage for Me?" on Singapore Talking, May 3, 2010 (2)
- What is Your Love Language?, May 2, 2010
- DaFG: How 'Not' to Celebrate Valentine’s Day, February 9, 2010
- Happiness is a Choice?, February 2, 2010
- DaFG: The Perfect Proposal, January 29, 2010
- Bidding a bittersweet farewell to 2009..., December 31, 2009 (5)
- A Heartwarming Note from a Reader!, September 30, 2009 (2)
- What is your Dating Mission Statement?, August 19, 2009 (1)
- Sometimes happiness does not come in 1.75m, July 28, 2009 (3)
- ON AIR: Astro Wah Lai Toi’s Ladies Sdn Bhd, July 20, 2009
- 3 Little Words... I Love You!, July 16, 2009 (1)
- Dating over 40, May 4, 2009
- "If you want to be loved, be lovable.", April 21, 2009 (3)
- Breaking Up is Hard to Do..., November 24, 2008 (6)
- To Be Chivalrous or Not, September 8, 2008 (11)
- Not 'Single, Desperate & Ugly' at all!, July 12, 2008 (4)
- And I thought I knew what I wanted..., June 12, 2008 (12)
- Music and Lyrics, what comes First?, May 20, 2008 (11)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, how do you match?, April 26, 2008 (1)
- Inter-faith relationships, do they work?, April 2, 2008 (3)
- Dating Singaporean Men..., December 9, 2007 (22)
- Thursday Tips from Ms. Matchmaker: 13 things I would do if I were Single and Looking for Love, November 29, 2007 (6)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match!, November 7, 2007 (6)
- If you were Susan, would you choose Mike or Ian?, July 31, 2007 (2)
- Accreditation for Singapore Dating Agencies, July 20, 2007 (1)
- Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?, June 11, 2007 (3)
- Yay! Eteract.com is one of the recipients of The Partner Connection Fund!, March 30, 2007 (4)
- This Man's Declaration of Love, March 23, 2007 (11)
- Thursday Thirteen #3: 13 Favourite Love Movies of Mine, March 1, 2007 (11)
- Who would You Date: Banker, Pilot or Teacher?, February 25, 2007 (8)
- My Birthday Date, February 21, 2007 (10)
- Thursday Thirteen #2: 13 Things I Love, February 15, 2007 (9)
- QQ,QA #8: About Trust, January 8, 2007 (4)
- Interesting Video on First Dates, December 20, 2006 (5)
- The Ivy Lee Episode: Doing the Right Thing?, December 13, 2006 (11)
- QQ,QA #5: About Love, October 30, 2006 (5)
- QQ,QA #4: About Long Distance Relationships, October 19, 2006 (10)
- QQ,QA #3: About Making Effort, October 10, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #1: About First Love, September 29, 2006 (4)
- Quick Questions, Quick Answers, September 25, 2006 (2)
- Mr. Nice & Ms. Natural, September 13, 2006 (5)
- Romance is Dead?, July 27, 2006 (10)
- "I am dating a married man!", July 21, 2006 (11)
- Taking Responsibility vs. Allocating Blame, July 10, 2006 (11)
- News Alert!, July 8, 2006 (2)
- The Bells are Ringing Once More..., June 3, 2006 (6)
- Come What May, April 17, 2006 (12)
- A Book Review: The Game, April 3, 2006 (6)
- When the Volcanoes Erupt, March 20, 2006 (10)
- How to NOT be late on your first date, March 15, 2006 (17)
- Ms Casual & Mr. Simple, March 8, 2006 (7)
- First Dates: Self Improvement, March 3, 2006 (2)
- A Matter of Trust, February 23, 2006 (6)
- Happy Valentine's Day! :), February 15, 2006 (2)
- Golden Rule of Dating -- A girl should NEVER initiate the first date?, February 13, 2006 (9)
- Who should pay? Always the guy?, February 11, 2006 (8)
- Love at first sight?, February 11, 2006 (2)
- Why hasn't he proposed?, February 9, 2006 (9)
- Women love bad boys! You have to be 'bad' to win over a girl!, February 7, 2006 (13)
- It's all about perspectives, isn't it?, January 28, 2006 (2)
- The Journey of Love, January 21, 2006 (5)
- Are you happy?, January 13, 2006 (4)
- The Most Difficult Words To Say, January 10, 2006 (2)
- "Why aren't you married yet?", December 25, 2005
- Preparing for your FIRST date?, December 22, 2005
- Worst Dating Scenarios (Part 3), December 12, 2005
- Worst Dating Scenarios (Part 2), December 9, 2005
- Worst Dating Scenarios (Part 1), December 5, 2005 (2)
- Going on your First Date - The 7 Deadly Sins, November 30, 2005 (2)
- How to Choose a Dating Service/Agency?, November 27, 2005
- Not interested in dating?, November 4, 2005
- the simple truth, November 2, 2005
- The Looks Department, August 29, 2005 (5)
- Ms. Sophisticated & Mr. Gentlemanly, August 21, 2005 (1)
- "Can you do it?", August 13, 2005
happilyeverafter for women (6)
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Violet's 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 1), July 14, 2010 (3)
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 3), June 6, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2), June 3, 2010 (5)
- happilyeverafter: "Are you dating the marrying type?" (Part 1), June 1, 2010
Life Lessons (94)
My Musings. My Thoughts. My Lessons Learnt.
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Nicholas Tse's Love Philosophy |谢霆锋的爱情观, May 25, 2010
- What is Your Love Language?, May 2, 2010
- Amazing April - Foray into Acting etc.!, April 29, 2010 (3)
- Happiness is..., April 5, 2010 (2)
- Turning 30..., February 26, 2010 (7)
- Happiness is a Choice?, February 2, 2010
- DaFG: The Perfect Proposal, January 29, 2010
- Bidding a bittersweet farewell to 2009..., December 31, 2009 (5)
- I am running in the Standard Chartered Marathon 2009!, December 4, 2009 (4)
- Respect to Men is like what Love is to Women, October 22, 2009
- A Heartwarming Note from a Reader!, September 30, 2009 (2)
- What is your Dating Mission Statement?, August 19, 2009 (1)
- Funny Corum, August 14, 2009
- Sometimes happiness does not come in 1.75m, July 28, 2009 (3)
- When 2 becomes 1, June 21, 2009
- My Best Friend's Wedding, June 14, 2009 (3)
- Looking Back at 2008..., December 31, 2008 (6)
- Touched..., December 16, 2008 (4)
- Singles Spreading the Christmas Cheer..., December 15, 2008 (1)
- Breaking Up is Hard to Do..., November 24, 2008 (6)
- God is Smart..., November 4, 2008 (7)
- Spirit of Enterprise Award 2008 | Thank YOU!, October 22, 2008 (3)
- My Day Off, September 4, 2008
- Not 'Single, Desperate & Ugly' at all!, July 12, 2008 (4)
- The Last Lecture, May 31, 2008 (5)
- My Best Friend's Birthday, May 16, 2008
- My Favourite Boys :), March 30, 2008
- I met Eunice Olsen!!!, March 18, 2008 (3)
- Turning 28..., February 21, 2008 (4)
- Recipe for Happiness, January 29, 2008
- Thursday Thirteen: 13 Love Songs that Tug at my Heartstrings..., January 17, 2008 (9)
- Looking back at 2007..., December 29, 2007 (3)
- Dating Singaporean Men..., December 9, 2007 (22)
- Thursday Tips from Ms. Matchmaker: 13 things I would do if I were Single and Looking for Love, November 29, 2007 (6)
- I love cab drivers! :), November 22, 2007 (4)
- Another Wedding... this time in KL, Malaysia! :), October 13, 2007
- 2nd Wedding Celebration!, October 10, 2007 (2)
- Dreams do come true..., September 27, 2007 (1)
- A Wake, a Front Cover and a Role Model, September 5, 2007 (7)
- When you are 60..., August 10, 2007 (4)
- What are You Passionate About?, July 12, 2007 (4)
- Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?, June 11, 2007 (3)
- Meme: The Face Behind the Blog, June 8, 2007 (3)
- A Revelation!, May 2, 2007 (4)
- Thursday Thirteen #4: 13 items you can find in a modern-day matchmaker's handbag!, April 19, 2007 (11)
- Till death do us part..., April 4, 2007 (10)
- 5 Reasons Why I Blog, March 4, 2007 (7)
- My Birthday Date, February 21, 2007 (10)
- QQ,QA #7: About Being Hurt, January 10, 2007 (8)
- Knowing When to Take Responsibility, December 31, 2006 (4)
- The Ivy Lee Episode: Doing the Right Thing?, December 13, 2006 (11)
- QQ,QA #6: About Kids, November 25, 2006 (8)
- Hmm... is this FINALLY it?, November 11, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #5: About Love, October 30, 2006 (5)
- QQ,QA #4: About Long Distance Relationships, October 19, 2006 (10)
- QQ,QA #3: About Making Effort, October 10, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #2: About Marriage, October 4, 2006 (2)
- On a Personal Note..., October 1, 2006 (2)
- QQ,QA #1: About First Love, September 29, 2006 (4)
- Quick Questions, Quick Answers, September 25, 2006 (2)
- Torn between Family & Lover, August 27, 2006 (4)
- For the first time..., July 20, 2006 (6)
- Problems? Challenges? Opportunities?, July 14, 2006 (5)
- Taking Responsibility vs. Allocating Blame, July 10, 2006 (11)
- The Power of Love, June 28, 2006 (9)
- About the Babe..., June 27, 2006 (4)
- About that 'minor operation', June 4, 2006 (7)
- The Maker knows Best, May 30, 2006 (7)
- Getting from point A to B, May 20, 2006 (4)
- A Reunion..., April 26, 2006 (3)
- Come What May, April 17, 2006 (12)
- A Book Review: The Game, April 3, 2006 (6)
- May your love be like the wind..., March 29, 2006 (16)
- When the Volcanoes Erupt, March 20, 2006 (10)
- How to NOT be late on your first date, March 15, 2006 (17)
- Conceive. Believe. Achieve, March 8, 2006 (5)
- Turning Point, March 7, 2006 (8)
- Appreciating Sunset, March 3, 2006 (4)
- First Dates: Self Improvement, March 3, 2006 (2)
- Brokeback Mountain: A Quick Review, February 27, 2006 (5)
- It's a Happy Day!, February 21, 2006 (6)
- Lost Happiness?, February 4, 2006 (4)
- About Miss Match, January 8, 2006 (1)
- May year 2006 be a dazzling year for all of us!, January 3, 2006 (2)
- Tribute to a Great Man, December 6, 2005 (10)
- "There are no ugly people, only lazy people?", December 2, 2005 (2)
- Why he loves Singapore more than KL???, November 13, 2005
- I was into creative writing?, October 28, 2005
- Starting Up Again!, September 17, 2005 (1)
- Customer Service. Singapore Style., August 25, 2005 (3)
- Better Be Running, August 13, 2005
- Prologue, August 12, 2005
Made in Heaven (6)
Couples who are Made in Heaven...
- My Best Friend's Wedding, June 14, 2009 (3)
- Not 'Single, Desperate & Ugly' at all!, July 12, 2008 (4)
- Perfect Guy? Perfect Girl?, November 20, 2007 (5)
- Another Wedding... this time in KL, Malaysia! :), October 13, 2007
- Wedding Bells for Mr. & Ms. Laidback, March 10, 2007 (12)
- Made in Heaven: Jeremy & Akiko, November 1, 2006 (7)
Media (7)
- Launch of new dating service - eSynchrony, June 24, 2010
- VioletLim.com is a finalist in the S'pore Blog Awards 2010!, May 25, 2010
- "Is Marriage for Me?" on Singapore Talking, May 3, 2010 (2)
- Amazing April - Foray into Acting etc.!, April 29, 2010 (3)
- Dating Locals vs. Dating Foreigners, November 30, 2009
- ON AIR: Astro Wah Lai Toi’s Ladies Sdn Bhd, July 20, 2009
- Video Interview: Importance of First Impressions, December 5, 2008
My Best Match (7)
Match of the Month! :)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, how do you match?, April 26, 2008 (1)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match!, November 7, 2007 (6)
- Another Wedding... this time in KL, Malaysia! :), October 13, 2007
- Woohoo! :) They got married!, April 30, 2007 (3)
- Mr. Motivated & Ms. Self-Improvement, February 3, 2007 (6)
- Mr. Nice & Ms. Natural, September 13, 2006 (5)
- Ms Casual & Mr. Simple, March 8, 2006 (7)
Perhaps Love (95)
Love Stories. Matters of the Heart.
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Violet's 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 1), July 14, 2010 (3)
- I can't open up my feelings to my boyfriend..., June 19, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 3), June 6, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2), June 3, 2010 (5)
- happilyeverafter: "Are you dating the marrying type?" (Part 1), June 1, 2010
- Nicholas Tse's Love Philosophy |谢霆锋的爱情观, May 25, 2010
- DaFG: Date Like a Pro... Learn from Twilight's Edward Cullen!, May 10, 2010 (4)
- What is Your Love Language?, May 2, 2010
- Turning 30..., February 26, 2010 (7)
- Happiness is a Choice?, February 2, 2010
- Respect to Men is like what Love is to Women, October 22, 2009
- A Heartwarming Note from a Reader!, September 30, 2009 (2)
- What is your Dating Mission Statement?, August 19, 2009 (1)
- Sometimes happiness does not come in 1.75m, July 28, 2009 (3)
- 3 Little Words... I Love You!, July 16, 2009 (1)
- When 2 becomes 1, June 21, 2009
- My Best Friend's Wedding, June 14, 2009 (3)
- "If you want to be loved, be lovable.", April 21, 2009 (3)
- Episode 2 - Ask Violet - Is he interested in me?, December 19, 2008
- Singles Spreading the Christmas Cheer..., December 15, 2008 (1)
- Lovely News... A Reminder of Why I Love What I Do :), December 11, 2008
- Breaking Up is Hard to Do..., November 24, 2008 (6)
- The Test of Time, July 31, 2008 (2)
- Not 'Single, Desperate & Ugly' at all!, July 12, 2008 (4)
- And I thought I knew what I wanted..., June 12, 2008 (12)
- Music and Lyrics, what comes First?, May 20, 2008 (11)
- Love, in theory..., April 13, 2008 (2)
- Boyfriend vs. best friend: Who do I choose?, March 7, 2008 (2)
- Should I contact my ex?, January 31, 2008
- Recipe for Happiness, January 29, 2008
- Thursday Thirteen: 13 Love Songs that Tug at my Heartstrings..., January 17, 2008 (9)
- Dating Singaporean Men..., December 9, 2007 (22)
- Thursday Tips from Ms. Matchmaker: 13 things I would do if I were Single and Looking for Love, November 29, 2007 (6)
- Perfect Guy? Perfect Girl?, November 20, 2007 (5)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match!, November 7, 2007 (6)
- Another Wedding... this time in KL, Malaysia! :), October 13, 2007
- 2nd Wedding Celebration!, October 10, 2007 (2)
- A Wake, a Front Cover and a Role Model, September 5, 2007 (7)
- I love her, but does she love me?, August 20, 2007 (7)
- If you were Susan, would you choose Mike or Ian?, July 31, 2007 (2)
- What are You Passionate About?, July 12, 2007 (4)
- Blog Plug: Romance-Fire.com, July 4, 2007 (2)
- Running out of Romantic Ideas?, July 1, 2007
- Blog Plug: Charming but Single, June 14, 2007 (8)
- What do men want, really?, May 4, 2007 (7)
- Woohoo! :) They got married!, April 30, 2007 (3)
- Just Plain True Love..., April 10, 2007 (7)
- Till death do us part..., April 4, 2007 (10)
- This Man's Declaration of Love, March 23, 2007 (11)
- Hooray! Wedding bells, wedding bells, wedding bells!, March 19, 2007 (4)
- Wedding Bells for Mr. & Ms. Laidback, March 10, 2007 (12)
- Thursday Thirteen #3: 13 Favourite Love Movies of Mine, March 1, 2007 (11)
- Who would You Date: Banker, Pilot or Teacher?, February 25, 2007 (8)
- My Birthday Date, February 21, 2007 (10)
- Mr. Motivated & Ms. Self-Improvement, February 3, 2007 (6)
- Blog Plug: *Our Love will Never Die*, January 15, 2007 (5)
- QQ,QA #7: About Being Hurt, January 10, 2007 (8)
- QQ,QA #8: About Trust, January 8, 2007 (4)
- Knowing When to Take Responsibility, December 31, 2006 (4)
- QQ,QA #6: About Kids, November 25, 2006 (8)
- Made in Heaven: Jeremy & Akiko, November 1, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #5: About Love, October 30, 2006 (5)
- QQ,QA #4: About Long Distance Relationships, October 19, 2006 (10)
- QQ,QA #3: About Making Effort, October 10, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #2: About Marriage, October 4, 2006 (2)
- QQ,QA #1: About First Love, September 29, 2006 (4)
- Quick Questions, Quick Answers, September 25, 2006 (2)
- A Sign, September 1, 2006 (10)
- Romance is Dead?, July 27, 2006 (10)
- "I am dating a married man!", July 21, 2006 (11)
- Problems? Challenges? Opportunities?, July 14, 2006 (5)
- News Alert!, July 8, 2006 (2)
- The Power of Love, June 28, 2006 (9)
- Interesting Wedding Ideas, June 27, 2006 (5)
- The Bells are Ringing Once More..., June 3, 2006 (6)
- A Reunion..., April 26, 2006 (3)
- Come What May, April 17, 2006 (12)
- The Words that Bind, April 10, 2006 (10)
- May your love be like the wind..., March 29, 2006 (16)
- How to NOT be late on your first date, March 15, 2006 (17)
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- Old Love, March 4, 2006 (9)
- A Matter of Trust, February 23, 2006 (6)
- Letting Go and Moving On, February 20, 2006 (12)
- It's the thought that counts!, February 16, 2006 (3)
- Happy Valentine's Day! :), February 15, 2006 (2)
- Love at first sight?, February 11, 2006 (2)
- Why hasn't he proposed?, February 9, 2006 (9)
- Love..., January 19, 2006
- May year 2006 be a dazzling year for all of us!, January 3, 2006 (2)
- What Love are you Fated for?, November 15, 2005
- Million ringgit fairy-tale wedding the talk of the town, November 14, 2005 (3)
- I am now officially Mrs. Lee!, October 10, 2005 (2)
Quick Updates (36)
Short.Sweet.Simple
- Singapore Blog Awards 2010: I won! Thanks for your support!, July 11, 2010 (6)
- Launch of new dating service - eSynchrony, June 24, 2010
- DaFG: To be punctual or late on a first date?, May 27, 2010
- Amazing April - Foray into Acting etc.!, April 29, 2010 (3)
- Happiness is..., April 5, 2010 (2)
- Happy Valentine's Day & Gong Xi Fa Cai! :), February 14, 2010
- I am running in the Standard Chartered Marathon 2009!, December 4, 2009 (4)
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- Wordpress on Blackberry, July 23, 2009 (1)
- ON AIR: Astro Wah Lai Toi’s Ladies Sdn Bhd, July 20, 2009
- A Lazy Sunday Afternoon, May 31, 2009 (3)
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- Looking Back at 2008..., December 31, 2008 (6)
- Touched..., December 16, 2008 (4)
- God is Smart..., November 4, 2008 (7)
- Spirit of Enterprise Award 2008 | Thank YOU!, October 22, 2008 (3)
- Spirit of Enterprise 2008 Award | Your vote counts! ;), July 2, 2008 (1)
- Want to be a Cupid?, April 10, 2008
- My Favourite Boys :), March 30, 2008
- Ssshhh... it's a Secret!, March 20, 2008
- I met Eunice Olsen!!!, March 18, 2008 (3)
- Turning 28..., February 21, 2008 (4)
- Thursday Thirteen: 13 Love Songs that Tug at my Heartstrings..., January 17, 2008 (9)
- Looking back at 2007..., December 29, 2007 (3)
- New Poll is up! , November 26, 2007 (3)
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Relationship Insights (92)
Connecting. Relating. Communicating.
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 3), August 13, 2010
- Violet’s 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 2), July 22, 2010
- Violet's 3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage! (Part 1), July 14, 2010 (3)
- Is it possible for a long-distance relationship to work?, June 22, 2010
- I can't open up my feelings to my boyfriend..., June 19, 2010
- He wants me to be a full-time housewife! But I want my career!, June 16, 2010
- DAfG: 4 Signs that You Should De-clutter your Dating (Life)Style, June 14, 2010
- "There aren't enough confident men...", June 10, 2010 (4)
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 3), June 6, 2010
- Violet is herworld.com's Relationship Q&A Expert!, June 5, 2010
- happilyeverafter: “Are you dating the marrying type?” (Part 2), June 3, 2010 (5)
- happilyeverafter: "Are you dating the marrying type?" (Part 1), June 1, 2010
- Nicholas Tse's Love Philosophy |谢霆锋的爱情观, May 25, 2010
- DaFG: Date Like a Pro... Learn from Twilight's Edward Cullen!, May 10, 2010 (4)
- What is Your Love Language?, May 2, 2010
- Turning 30..., February 26, 2010 (7)
- Bidding a bittersweet farewell to 2009..., December 31, 2009 (5)
- "My boyfriend has a change of heart...", November 8, 2009 (8)
- Respect to Men is like what Love is to Women, October 22, 2009
- A Heartwarming Note from a Reader!, September 30, 2009 (2)
- What is your Dating Mission Statement?, August 19, 2009 (1)
- ON AIR: Astro Wah Lai Toi’s Ladies Sdn Bhd, July 20, 2009
- 3 Little Words... I Love You!, July 16, 2009 (1)
- When 2 becomes 1, June 21, 2009
- My Best Friend's Wedding, June 14, 2009 (3)
- Episode 2 - Ask Violet - Is he interested in me?, December 19, 2008
- Lovely News... A Reminder of Why I Love What I Do :), December 11, 2008
- Breaking Up is Hard to Do..., November 24, 2008 (6)
- To Be Chivalrous or Not, September 8, 2008 (11)
- My Day Off, September 4, 2008
- The Test of Time, July 31, 2008 (2)
- And I thought I knew what I wanted..., June 12, 2008 (12)
- The Last Lecture, May 31, 2008 (5)
- Music and Lyrics, what comes First?, May 20, 2008 (11)
- Matchmaker, matchmaker, how do you match?, April 26, 2008 (1)
- Boyfriend vs. best friend: Who do I choose?, March 7, 2008 (2)
- Should I contact my ex?, January 31, 2008
- Recipe for Happiness, January 29, 2008
- Dating Singaporean Men..., December 9, 2007 (22)
- Thursday Tips from Ms. Matchmaker: 13 things I would do if I were Single and Looking for Love, November 29, 2007 (6)
- Perfect Guy? Perfect Girl?, November 20, 2007 (5)
- Another Wedding... this time in KL, Malaysia! :), October 13, 2007
- 2nd Wedding Celebration!, October 10, 2007 (2)
- A Wake, a Front Cover and a Role Model, September 5, 2007 (7)
- When you are 60..., August 10, 2007 (4)
- If you were Susan, would you choose Mike or Ian?, July 31, 2007 (2)
- Running out of Romantic Ideas?, July 1, 2007
- Just Plain True Love..., April 10, 2007 (7)
- Till death do us part..., April 4, 2007 (10)
- Hooray! Wedding bells, wedding bells, wedding bells!, March 19, 2007 (4)
- My Birthday Date, February 21, 2007 (10)
- Mr. Motivated & Ms. Self-Improvement, February 3, 2007 (6)
- QQ,QA #7: About Being Hurt, January 10, 2007 (8)
- QQ,QA #8: About Trust, January 8, 2007 (4)
- Knowing When to Take Responsibility, December 31, 2006 (4)
- QQ,QA #6: About Kids, November 25, 2006 (8)
- Made in Heaven: Jeremy & Akiko, November 1, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #5: About Love, October 30, 2006 (5)
- QQ,QA #4: About Long Distance Relationships, October 19, 2006 (10)
- QQ,QA #3: About Making Effort, October 10, 2006 (7)
- QQ,QA #2: About Marriage, October 4, 2006 (2)
- QQ,QA #1: About First Love, September 29, 2006 (4)
- Quick Questions, Quick Answers, September 25, 2006 (2)
- Mr. Nice & Ms. Natural, September 13, 2006 (5)
- Torn between Family & Lover, August 27, 2006 (4)
- Romance is Dead?, July 27, 2006 (10)
- "I am dating a married man!", July 21, 2006 (11)
- Taking Responsibility vs. Allocating Blame, July 10, 2006 (11)
- The Power of Love, June 28, 2006 (9)
- Interesting Wedding Ideas, June 27, 2006 (5)
- May your love be like the wind..., March 29, 2006 (16)
- Through Thick and Thin, March 13, 2006 (11)
- A Matter of Trust, February 23, 2006 (6)
- Letting Go and Moving On, February 20, 2006 (12)
- It's the thought that counts!, February 16, 2006 (3)
- Why hasn't he proposed?, February 9, 2006 (9)
- Women love bad boys! You have to be 'bad' to win over a girl!, February 7, 2006 (13)
- No More Labels, February 6, 2006
- The Journey of Love, January 21, 2006 (5)
- Are you happy?, January 13, 2006 (4)
- The Most Difficult Words To Say, January 10, 2006 (2)
- May year 2006 be a dazzling year for all of us!, January 3, 2006 (2)
- "Why aren't you married yet?", December 25, 2005
- Preparing for your FIRST date?, December 22, 2005
- Light Within: [Happily] Married with kids -- and in love with a prostitute, December 3, 2005 (2)
- Sticky Situation! How to get out without hurting her feelings?, November 30, 2005 (4)
- Why do people stay on in unhappy relationships?, November 14, 2005 (5)
- Why he loves Singapore more than KL???, November 13, 2005
- the simple truth, November 2, 2005
- Ms. Sophisticated & Mr. Gentlemanly, August 21, 2005 (1)
- With or Without Kids, August 16, 2005
- "Can you do it?", August 13, 2005
Thursday 13 (7)
Thursday 13... the mime.
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- Thursday Thirteen #5: 13 of my Favourite Love & Motivational Quotes, May 24, 2007 (4)
- Thursday Thirteen #4: 13 items you can find in a modern-day matchmaker's handbag!, April 19, 2007 (11)
- Thursday Thirteen #3: 13 Favourite Love Movies of Mine, March 1, 2007 (11)
- Thursday Thirteen #2: 13 Things I Love, February 15, 2007 (9)
- Thursday Thirteen #1: 13 Random Facts about Me, February 8, 2007 (8)
Travel Musings (4)
- Ms Matchmaker’s Guide to Hong Kong #4: THE Makeover, August 6, 2010 (2)
- Ms Matchmaker’s Guide to Hong Kong #3: My Love Affair with the Fragrant Harbour, July 30, 2010
- Ms Matchmaker’s Guide to Hong Kong #2: Discovering our Not-So-Humble Abode..., July 25, 2010
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Interesting Videos
- Dating Locals vs. Dating Foreigners, November 30, 2009
- ON AIR: Astro Wah Lai Toi’s Ladies Sdn Bhd, July 20, 2009
- Episode 2 - Ask Violet - Is he interested in me?, December 19, 2008
- Video Interview: Importance of First Impressions, December 5, 2008
- Introducing my Video Series... "Speaking with Violet", November 30, 2008 (1)
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