Comments on: “My boyfriend has a change of heart…”

By: Dinah

Dinah — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 06:17:24 +0000

sigh…i have been experiencing sometning like that recently. Both my BF and myself are living in Singapore, we have been together for more than 2 yrs, we used to see each other almost on daily basis and calling during the day. But recently, he keep asking me not to call, he will call me when he is free, this mean from a few calls in a day to only 1-2 call in a day and a month ago, i found that there are gals that he is corresponding with on sms…she is calling him “dear”.. Am very sad because in this relationship, I have been helping to pay this and that and even my own meals, I dint expect anything at all but only true love…now I can sense that he seems to have nothing much to tell me or talk to me about. I suspect that he could be still contacting other gals but we have been together for 2 years +, dont know what I should do now…I am no longer young..

By: Marene

Marene — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 03:43:32 +0000

Life has to go on.Always looks the bright side of life and who knows we may find the right one soon. That will be one of my resolution this new year.To be set free from Singlehood.Need great help from you Violet to fulfil it. Cheers.

By: Violet

Violet — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 07:04:20 +0000

Lily, am glad that you have found the article helpful. Jiayou, and be strong!

Mae, thanks for dropping by and sharing your gal friend’s experiences.

By: Mae

Mae — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 16:19:49 +0000

My galfriend had a similar experience and it turned out (she found out from his close guyfren), her (ex)BF already had doubts abt the relationship (both work/stay in Sg), so when a “minor” problem came up, it strike his mind (and heart) that all these mean that they are not compatible and broke up after “cool off” period of 2 days. They had been together for 1 YEAR.
I consoled her, for he is a jerk and mummy’s boy who is idealistic abt his “Perfect GF”. You can also contribute that to lack of love experience and maturity.

By: Lily

Lily — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:01:39 +0000

I’m having the same prob with my bf (LDR). Like J, 6 months too, then he suddenly changed overnight just because of a minor argument. I tried to talk him but he asked for time-out. We haven’t spoken to each other for almost a fortnight now. Anyhow, this article really helps. I know what I should do now. Thanks.

By: Violet

Violet — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:58:38 +0000

Kit & Vic, thanks for contributing your thoughts and advice to J. Am sure she will really appreciate your support and encouragement!

By: Vic

Vic — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:53:33 +0000

I totally agree with Violet too. i have experienced the same recently. i was dating with my bf for 10 years and planned to get married end of this year. HOwever, recently i discover he got another one………… the worse is he cannot let go of that women. i really hope i can be strong. Therefore, i hope J u can be brave and strong too.

By: Kit

Kit — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:42:02 +0000

i totally agree with violet.. please be strong and hang in there, the more you try to hold on to the relationship, the more you will feel hurt trying to understand why things have changed, and why he is behaving the way he is.. give it time… and you will feel happier having moved on from what didnt work.