SINGAPORE: Man – with a few grey hairs – meets woman. But instead of asking for her number, quietly hopes to see her at the next social gathering.

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Violet’s Comments: Read this rather interesting article in today’s TODAY newspaper. Think it’s really heartening to know that this lady Dr Liu has started a social club for singles who are over 40. Being in the dating industry for the last 5 years, I know that it is not easy for ladies over 40, and also men who are in their late 40s and 50s to meet like-minded singles. Especially when you are a divorcee with children. For singles over 40 who have been reading my blog, do check out Dr Liu’s site.