Comments on: “If you want to be loved, be lovable.”

By: Helen

Helen — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 19:15:08 +0000

Violet, I am sure you have read the book form Sherry Argov ‘Why men love Bitches’. I was an obedient girl before, especially when I was involved in a relationship. Commented by my previous boyfriends, I was a ‘typical’ woman – decent, nice, kind – without any ‘fist-thumping’ acts. Isn’t it lovable? I did think so. However, I found my previous boyfriends didn’t cherish my goodnesses which they took advantages on me instead – they have chosen some bitchy women and left me. I can’t find myself lovable anymore. Therefore, I am learning to be a bit bitchy, at least rejecting those who tried to define or shape me at the beginning. But I cannot fall in love again. Sarcastic, right?

By: Cameron Sharpe

Cameron Sharpe — Mon, 25 May 2009 09:51:40 +0000

Ivan says, Life is mystical, when we care to look deep enough, we will see a lot of relevance. What is important is what action do we take. Glad that you find some meaning and hopefully some inspirations from it.

By: Gary

Gary — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 06:28:25 +0000

“Many a times, nice guys get rejected not because they are nice. It is because they lack self-confidence when interacting with women. Instead of leading and being decisive, they ask permission for everything and they feel absolutely lucky when a lady shows them any attention at all. This kind of behavior does not inspire any interest from the ladies”.
========>>> isnt that a classic sign of Singapore women’s expectations are too high for Singapore men to please in order to get a date???? I rather choose overseas ladies then.