Attended KL’s first wedding last week. We already have had quite aÂ number of marriagesÂ in Singapore. But in KL, this is the first.
I feel very honoured to be invited these weddings. There are some couples who invite us. Some who invite their dating consultants. Some who come by to the office with gifts for us. And of course, some who never even tell us they are getting married. Haha!
I used to be quite disheartened by that. But I have started to accept that some people would rather not let others know that they have met through a dating agency. And perhaps, they are worried that if we know that they have met someone through us, and gotten married, we will hound them for testimonials, media interviews etc. And truth is, if they tell me no one time, I will respect their privacy.
Let’s come back to the KL couple. When they registered their marriage earlier this year, I was so happy. I do not know the lady client well, but I have spoken to the guy many times over the phone. And he is really one of the nicest clients I have met.
Then I asked him, “Hey, do you have any photos of the marriage registration?”
“Ya, of course.”
“Send me some la…!”
“Aiyah, you think I am going to put on my website meh? No la, I just want to see and bask in your happiness la…”
“Oh ok ok, I email you now.”
Haha! Think our dating and matchmaking industry really must have a bad name… for people to be so weary and cautious.
Talking about this couple, I am really like SUPER happy for them. Especially because this guy is really so extremely nice. He’s polite to all the dating consultants, never rude or abusive. And he is so appreciative. At the wedding, I think he said thank you to me like for 5-6 times. So many times until I also feel paiseh (shy). When he met me at the door, when he showed me to my seat, when he came around for the wine-toasting, when he came around for photo-taking, when we (Jamie and I) were leaving… and he looks so grateful.
He kept saying, “Without you, there will be no wedding.”
OMG. That’s the biggest compliment someone can pay me.
I still remember my first phone conversation with him.
He told me. “Violet, you know, actually I am all set to get married. I have a car. I have a house. I have a stable career. But I just have not met the right one…”
My consultants and I helped him and give him some pointers here and there. And we could see that his progress with his dates are getting better and better.
One of my 3rd or 4th phone calls with him. I called him to check in.
And he said, “Violet, guess where am I now?”
“I am outside her house”
“What are you doing there? OMG, don’t tell me you are stalking her!”
“No la, she invited me home to have dinner with her family!”
“Wah!!! Well done… quite fast ha… think your first date was only a few weeks ago?
“Very good, very good! So how, what did you buy for her parents?”
“Ha? Must buy something ar?”
“Of course la, if not go with empty hands? What kind of impression will you make?”
“Ok, ok… she’s not home yet, I will go buy something now…”
Think he eventually bought either some fruits or chocolate.
The funniest thing was… his then girlfriend now wife actually suspected that something was amissed. Because she knew him so well that she was shocked to see that he has bought something! Haha! So much later, he confessed to her that it was because he had this conversation with me!
When things are down. When I have a bad day at work. When I wake up on the wrong side of bed, wondering if all these are worth it. I will think of couples such as this one. Knowing that I have made a small difference in their lives. This is what makes everything worth it…!
To this wonderful couple, may your marriage be always blessed with love, joy and happiness…!Share on Facebook