Comments on: QQ,QA #6: About Kids

By: Violet

Violet — Tue, 12 Dec 2006 23:55:07 +0000

Hi Cherie,
Thanks for dropping by, and sharing with us your views and experiences. You have definitely given us a different perspective to the matter.

Hi Fredo,
Welcome to my blog! Thanks for your contribution and kind compliments!

By: fredo

fredo — Tue, 12 Dec 2006 07:24:27 +0000

I wouldn’t want a child before marriage. Think of the child, they need a proper family.
I don’t want them to feel bad towards the society as a fatherless child. This psychology trauma will etched in their memory and haunt them forever.

Good article anyway.

By: Cherie

Cherie — Tue, 12 Dec 2006 03:43:18 +0000

What’s in a surname?

My personal experience is, I have a kid AFTER I was legally married. The kid’s father abandoned us. Now, I have changed the child’s surname to follow mine for convenience.

So does “A NAME” really matter? I’d say Absolutely Not!

By: Violet

Violet — Fri, 01 Dec 2006 07:54:58 +0000

Hi Carol,
Good to see you here again! Thanks for sharing!

Rudy,
Haha! It’s funny that I did not address the whole issue of having kids out of wedlock in the entire entry! Thanks for bringing it up!

By: snglguy

snglguy — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 12:48:00 +0000

Well, I am an old fashioned kind of guy so yeah, I would prefer to have kids after the I do’s rather than have one out of wedlock.

By: carol

carol — Tue, 28 Nov 2006 00:21:08 +0000

Yeah, everyone have their own set of principles in life.. What matter most is you, yourself.. the life that you want to lead.. Frankly, for me, it is better to have kids after marriage ^-^

By: Violet

Violet — Mon, 27 Nov 2006 11:16:27 +0000

Hi Thana,
Welcome to my blog! Thanks for your comment! But I guess with everything in life, different strokes for different folks.

By: Thana

Thana — Mon, 27 Nov 2006 01:37:30 +0000

Well, I have come across some tru life stories in this matter. I agree with violet, if it does not matter to you what is the big deal!
The has been a stigma attached with the concept of marriage.

Commitment = Marriage.

Then I guess, they are scared of the simple piece of paper….