Comments on: It’s all about perspectives, isn’t it? http://www.violetlim.com/2006/01/28/its-all-about-perspectives-isnt-it/ A Modern-Day Matchmaker's Views on Dating, Matchmaking, Relationship, Love & Life Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:33:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Violet http://www.violetlim.com/2006/01/28/its-all-about-perspectives-isnt-it/comment-page-1/#comment-77 Violet Sun, 29 Jan 2006 17:28:00 +0000 http://violetlim.com/2006/01/28/its-all-about-perspectives-isnt-it/#comment-77 Hey Alicia! Thanks for breaking the silence! :) I agree with you. The search is sometimes long, tough and discouraging. To answer your question, I always encourage members to meet up again for a second date if there is nothing about your date that you actually dislike. Because sometimes knowing someone is like peeling of onions. You have to peel of the skin layer by layer to really know a person. :) Happy New Year! Sincerely, Violet Hey Alicia!

Thanks for breaking the silence! :) I agree with you. The search is sometimes long, tough and discouraging.

To answer your question, I always encourage members to meet up again for a second date if there is nothing about your date that you actually dislike. Because sometimes knowing someone is like peeling of onions. You have to peel of the skin layer by layer to really know a person. :)

Happy New Year!

Sincerely,
Violet

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.violetlim.com/2006/01/28/its-all-about-perspectives-isnt-it/comment-page-1/#comment-76 Anonymous Sun, 29 Jan 2006 08:28:00 +0000 http://violetlim.com/2006/01/28/its-all-about-perspectives-isnt-it/#comment-76 On my goodness.. this scenerio sounds so familar. It happened to me before (a few times already in fact) during the 'intro' dinner. At first I felt the same thing with Lady X, and probably the guys whom I meet feel the same with Guy Y too. But isn't the search for that special person worth this bit of frustration? And besides, this is going to be for a lifetime! Imagine that special person is a red bean inside a huge bag full of green beans. How can we go hunt for him/her? The search can be tough and discouraging sometimes. But still, it's worth it! your slient reader, Alicia Happy Chinese New Year! On my goodness.. this scenerio sounds so familar. It happened to me before (a few times already in fact) during the ‘intro’ dinner. At first I felt the same thing with Lady X, and probably the guys whom I meet feel the same with Guy Y too. But isn’t the search for that special person worth this bit of frustration? And besides, this is going to be for a lifetime!

Imagine that special person is a red bean inside a huge bag full of green beans. How can we go hunt for him/her? The search can be tough and discouraging sometimes. But still, it’s worth it!

your slient reader, Alicia
Happy Chinese New Year!

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